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    What Is A Promise Ring?


    You may have heard about promise and commitment rings, maybe through friends and family or perhaps you’ve been thinking about giving one. In this blog, we will cover all you need to know about what they are for and how they came about.

    So, What Is A Promise Ring?  

    Fundamentally, commitment and promise rings are a symbol of devotion within a relationship, but for each individual couple this can have different underlying purposes. Promise rings can be used to signify different things, sometimes couples want a physical symbol of the relationship, or it can be given prior to cohabiting together to show commitment or used to signify future engagement. If a couple are in a financially tight position, sometimes a promise ring will be used as a placeholder for the engagement ring that will come in the near future. Equally, promise rings can be used for couples that may not want to get married, but want to vow their commitment to one another. Generally, a promise ring is only considered appropriate when a couple have been dating for a long time.

    How Did They Come About?

    The trend of promise and commitment rings is on the up, but they have been a tradition for longer than you may first think. Originally they were called ‘Posy’ rings, popular between the 15th and 17th centuries. These were given in England and France between lovers, traditionally being a relatively plain band with an line of a poem or romantic message engraved on the inside. However, women giving men promise rings is more of a modern idea, dating back to around the 20th century.

    How To Choose Or Wear One

    When it comes to choosing the perfect promise ring, trends have changed over the years as you’d expect. In the 21st century, styles such as the Irish Claddagh ring has been a popular option as it represents love, loyalty and friendship, but more recently designs such as the infinity symbol, representing everlasting love, have become increasingly popular as it's in keeping with fashion trends, but also a classic design. Eternity rings are also a popular choice.

    The giving of a promise ring is not considered as important as a proposal, as it is more about the meaning associated with the ring, rather than the ‘moment’, often gifted on a special occasion such as an anniversary or Valentines Day.

    Typically, promise and commitment rings are worn on the ring finger of the left hand, like an engagement ring, as a vein runs from that finger to the heart, but it is usually then moved across to the right hand once married. However, there are no strict rules about how best to wear them, with some people choosing to wear them around their neck on a chain.

    Commitment Rings

    Civil Partnerships saw the rise of commitment rings, as they were used during the ceremony as an alternative to wedding bands to symbolise their commitment to one another. Since 2014, when same-sex marriage became legal, commitment rings and promise rings have become less distinct from one another, simply signifying complete devotion to another person.

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